“Are you by any chance a dancer? Because you move with such grace and confidence, you have to be professionally trained. Who’s your teacher?” If she says she’s not a dancer, follow up with: “Well, I bet if we get you in a club that’s a different story.” Or… You: “How high are those heels?” Her: (answer) You: “Wow, you…

After your opener, you need to have a way to TRANSITION into the conversation. Think like a chess player, always planning a couple of moves ahead. The very first words that come out of your mouth are not the most important ones. As I said before, if you project confidence and a laidback, playful attitude, you could get away with…

The conversation should begin with a Dominant Approach. The pickup artist and guru “Mystery” teaches a principle called “The Three Second Rule” that dictates that when you see a woman you want to meet, you should approach her within three seconds. Always. The logic behind this is that you want to make your move before any anxiety or nervousness sets…

This article is going to start you on a path to meeting more women, the beginning to all your action. It’s called Tease to Please, and this is a very important part of learning how to talk to women. We’ve all heard about being “cocky and funny,” or “confident and funny,” or variations thereof. This article is going to start…

It’s been said that 20% of how the humans interact is via words, and about 80% is the non-verbal part: body gestures, voice tone, voice pitch, and eye contact. So, you need to know how to control these aspects of your game. Body Language – Whenever women are watching, you should move in a slow, relaxed manner. Push your chest…

Hey, it’s Dean again. One of the most powerful words in the English language is “because.” Studies have shown that when you ask a person for something, or ask them to do something, they are much more likely to go along with it if you provide a reason for your request. The word “because” is how you link the request…

In the minds of most people, tension is a bad thing. It creates a gamut of feelings including stress, discomfort, and uncertainty, so why would anyone welcome it? In most cases, people go out of their way to avoid tension, and for good reason. When you talk to girls, however, the opposite is true. I’m speaking, of course, about sexual…

You can also include a Tease in your Flirt Opener or a minute or two into the conversation to spice things up and create some sexual tension. By the way, the word “tension” is normally not a good thing; it means the situation is uncomfortable. Sexual tension is different. It means there is electricity in the air. She’s curious about…

By the way, the “time constraint” is another tactic you may want to add into your approaches. I have to credit Neil Strauss, author of the sensational book The Game, with this concept since he was the first to write about it although I’ve been using it for many years. The idea behind using a Time Constraint is that you…

These openers are more advanced. They require you to convey two things in a big way: playfulness and confidence. If you use Flirt Openers correctly, they can be extremely effective and fast-track the seduction. You can skip a lot of the “getting to you know you” stuff and take things to a sexual level very fast. Before you use a…