There are all kinds of ways for women to say “no” and a million different reasons for them to say it, whether you’re trying to get a phone number, or inviting them to share a bottle of wine back at your pad. This is why during the conversation, you should plant seeds that will negate any of her doubts and…
Read More »Creative Phrasing is another way to jam her radar. We explained earlier how this is the key to scoring phone numbers. You also learned that when you ask permission (“Can I call you sometime?”), her mind will consider the negative possibilities first. (You’ll call her constantly, she shouldn’t share personal information with a guy she just met, etc.) That’s why the…
Read More »Author Robert Cialdini lays out a powerful, well-researched case on why persuasion is a science and how as human beings, our brains are running most of the time on autopilot and trained to react to certain forms of influence. This makes us vulnerable to “compliance professionals” of all types whom we encounter in our daily lives whether it’s a salesman…
Read More »Look for ways to guide or control the conversation towards your positive qualities. You want to mention them without lingering on them; the idea is to “plant seeds” rather than blab about yourself. Travel is an excellent topic to move the conversation towards. If you’ve seen some interesting parts of the world, talking about it makes you seem worldly, sophisticated…
Read More »Start it off by introducing yourself by name. When a man doesn’t offer his name, it implies that he doesn’t want her to know who he is. Maybe he’s married or has a girlfriend, and is trying to make something happen on the down low. Who knows; maybe he’s wanted by the cops. OK, that may seem like an extreme…
Read More »This is an expression you often hear in regards to relationships. Girls complain about not spending enough of it with their boyfriends; guys wish they could have more of it with the women they lust after. But here’s a news flash, fellas: the most important quality time a Mack can spend is with himself. When he’s on his own, the Mack is constantly exploring…
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