What is flirting? It’s putting the agenda on the table. It’s showing interest in a fun way. It’s what I do when I tell girls I’m hitting on them or trying to get in their pants, or I tell them I’m going to fuck their ass in the bathroom. It’s funny; not serious but it’s showing interest. It’s when I…
Read More »Advice On How To Approach Women I want to give you some brief tips on how to approach beautiful women and get phone numbers. More expressly, these tips are about how to get a girls phone number during the daytime — because every day you’ve got golden opportunities to meet women that you probably aren’t taking advantage of. Just think…
Read More »Interviewer: Many guys don’t have approach anxiety as much as they do “conversation anxiety.” What do you do or say to keep the conversation going once you get past the introduction? Dean Cortez: Well, I teach a ton of material on conversation, and I call it conversation control because really what you want to do is you want to guide…
Read More »When it comes to conversing with women, the average guy thinks that HE should be doing most of the talking. As long as he can keep talking and telling a woman things, he figures he’s building a connection and things are moving in the right direction. But successful conversation has nothing to do with how much you say, or how…
Read More »“Are you by any chance a dancer? Because you move with such grace and confidence, you have to be professionally trained. Who’s your teacher?” If she says she’s not a dancer, follow up with: “Well, I bet if we get you in a club that’s a different story.” Or… You: “How high are those heels?” Her: (answer) You: “Wow, you…
Read More »After your opener, you need to have a way to TRANSITION into the conversation. Think like a chess player, always planning a couple of moves ahead. The very first words that come out of your mouth are not the most important ones. As I said before, if you project confidence and a laidback, playful attitude, you could get away with…
Read More »The conversation should begin with a Dominant Approach. The pickup artist and guru “Mystery” teaches a principle called “The Three Second Rule” that dictates that when you see a woman you want to meet, you should approach her within three seconds. Always. The logic behind this is that you want to make your move before any anxiety or nervousness sets…
Read More »This article is going to start you on a path to meeting more women, the beginning to all your action. It’s called Tease to Please, and this is a very important part of learning how to talk to women. We’ve all heard about being “cocky and funny,” or “confident and funny,” or variations thereof. This article is going to start…
Read More »It’s been said that 20% of how the humans interact is via words, and about 80% is the non-verbal part: body gestures, voice tone, voice pitch, and eye contact. So, you need to know how to control these aspects of your game. Body Language – Whenever women are watching, you should move in a slow, relaxed manner. Push your chest…
Read More »Hey, it’s Dean again. One of the most powerful words in the English language is “because.” Studies have shown that when you ask a person for something, or ask them to do something, they are much more likely to go along with it if you provide a reason for your request. The word “because” is how you link the request…
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