Advice On How To Approach Women

I want to give you some brief tips on how to approach beautiful women and get phone numbers. More expressly, these tips are about how to get a girls phone number during the daytime — because every day you’ve got golden opportunities to meet women that you probably aren’t taking advantage of.

Just think about the last time you saw an attractive girl while you were out during the day…and you would have really liked to talk to her and get her info, but you just weren’t sure how to break the ice and make it happen?

See, most guys fail to go for it because they’re worried about what they’re going to talk about with her. Maybe this guy feels semi-comfortable with the idea of approaching women in bars, but when it comes to “day approaches,” he is simply too timid to make his move because he doesn’t know how to approach a woman.

Unfortunately, this is the case with a lot of men. Away from “social” locations like bars and parties, they just don’t feel capable of approaching women and starting conversations out of the blue.

Approaching Tips – How To Approach Girls

Here’s the solution to this quandary. I want you to stop worrying about having extended conversations with women in these situations. You simply need to get her phone number and email address, and her name, and then go on your way. Save the in-depth conversation for when you see her next time.

In fact, you’ll get a lot MORE phone numbers if you speed up this process. You can learn how to get a girls phone number in less than five minutes. And if you use this method, you’ll actually collect MORE phone numbers than you’d get by trying to talk to every girl you meet for 20 minutes and dragging out the conversation.

The more time you spend trying to chit-chat with a girl you just met, the greater the chance that she will disqualify you because you say something unwise, or you do or say something that cools off her interest in you.

The next thing to remember: always carry a pen and a small pad of paper in your pocket. This is a smart idea for a few reasons, and one of them is because it makes getting a girls number and other information much smoother.

Here’s how easy it can be. All you need to do is make an observation about her. Notice a detail of her appearance. Maybe she’s wearing a fashionable blouse or jeans, or carrying a cool-looking purse. Or, you might notice she’s got a cool new model of cell phone.

Now all you need to do it point out that detail and mention to her that you want to pick up something similar for a female friend of yours who has a birthday coming up. “Hey, I couldn’t help noticing your ______. My friend Jennifer has a birthday coming up and I need to pick out a gift, I think she’d love something like that…where did you get it?”

This detail that you notice can be any number of things. If you’re talking to a girl at the supermarket, you might notice an item she has in her shopping cart and say, “Pardon me, I’m hosting a dinner party for some friends tonight and I’m trying to figure out a dessert that I can whip up…something that’s not too difficult to make, and that everyone will enjoy. What would you recommend?”

If you want to know how to get a girls number at a bookstore, use the same principle: “Hey, is that book you’re reading any good? I’m trying to pick out a birthday gift for a friend — she’s a girl the same age as you — and I’m wondering if you’ve read anything really good lately?”

Let her answer. You only need to have a few minutes of conversation with her, and then say, “I appreciate your advice, I’m going to go pick that up for my friend. Hey, do you have an email address? I’ll let you know if my gift gets a good reaction.”

Nine times out of then, the girl will say “yes” and now you’re going to get her info. (Notice, you didn’t ask her if you can HAVE her email address. You asked “if she has email.” And every girl does, of course. The trick is, you act like she is now offering to give it you…and naturally, she will.)

So now you casually take out your pen and notepad and hand them to her. Act like this is a completely natural next step.

Then, as she jots down her email address, say to her, “write down your number, too. Oh, and I didn’t catch your name…”

As long as you behave like this is completely natural and normal, she’ll treat it as such.

It’s when you ask women PERMISSION for these things that you might run into resistance. So, don’t act permission when you want to get a girls number — or for that matter, when you ask her for anything at all. You should always prompt girls to go along with your flow. You can simply assume that she wants to give you her info, and she most likely will give it you.

After she gives it to you, wish her a good day and walk away. End the interaction on a pleasant note. You can call her the following day and take the next step.

Understanding how to approach women and get phone numbers is just one of the dozens of skills you’ll want to master. And as for how you’re going to schedule this “next meet” with her, I’ve got some very powerful strategies to ensure a successful outcome… www.macktactics.com