“Teases” are a powerful Mack technique. Throw out stories or comments that imply that you’re a man in demand, with high standards: “The girls I’ve dated recently have been super high-maintenance. They looked great, but they were always complaining and had all kinds of drama. It’s cool to meet a normal girl, like yourself, who I can relax around.” This…
Read More »When you approach a girl, she has a million reasons to say no. In fact, she’s probably looking for reasons to shoot you down. These reasons could be beyond your control. You might resemble the jerk who broke her heart in the tenth grade. She might be coming off a bad relationship. She might be stressed out from her job. If…
Read More »The book Crisis Negotiations by Michael McMains and Wayman Mullins, used by police departments across the country, refers to the “rule of reciprocity.” This rule means that if you do a favor for someone, they will feel obliged to repay the favor. It’s basic human nature. It makes us uncomfortable to feel that we owe a person something. When you do…
Read More »There are certain topics which you should always avoid when talking to a female you’re trying to mack. These topics include: • Death • Communicable diseases • Violence towards women • Porn I know these sound totally obvious. What kind of jackass would start rapping about porno or rape with a girl he just met? But there’s a reason we…
Read More »As you converse, you’re letting her do much of the talking. Resist the urge to jump in and start telling her what you think. Instead, use Minimal Encouragers are technique used by Hostage Negotiators to keep things flowing. Some examples of Minimal Encouragers are: • “Wow, it seems like we’re really on the same page. Tell me more.” • “I was…
Read More »Women say it all the time: a sense of humor is a very desirable quality in a man. This gives hope to a lot of guys who aren’t confident in their looks, but are quick with words. The problem is that for most “funny” guys, their sense of humor is a defense mechanism. They’re insecure about trying to connect with…
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