Now I’ll lay out some different types of openers. I don’t suggest memorizing them word-for-word. They are meant to illustrate how and why an effective opener works, and they’re going to be more effective if you “tailor” them a bit to suit your own personality and interests. Women (and people in general) always appreciate a thoughtful compliment. Never tell a…

You want to use an opener that will accomplish four things:   #1 It does not remove her from her “comfort zone.” You never want her to feel threatened or uncomfortable when you approach and start talking to her. #2 It captures her interest and attention (or the attention of the group she’s with) #3 It displays a positive aspect…

Women have a core need to feel secure and protected. You can give her the sense that you are a “protector” by using simple, subtle gestures. Obviously, you’re not going to have the opportunity to demonstrate physical dominance until after you’ve approached and gotten to know her a bit. But I want to mention this while we’re on the subject….

The other aspect of Social Dominance is getting Social Proof from people (besides the buddies you showed up with). Social Proof is a classic sales/advertising concept. Basically, as humans, we form our opinions on things and people according to what other people think of them. This is especially true in consumer culture. Every time a new “trend” sweeps the country…

Sometimes, being the “leader of your tribe” isn’t good enough. You’ve got to be the leader of a tribe that other people want to be a part of. This means, quite simply, that your tribe needs to be cool. A common mistake that guys make, when they study “pickup” and start improving their game, is that they continue to go…

Men are hardwired to feel attraction towards women who have a certain physical appearance, women have “attraction triggers” hardwired into them as well. The good news is that women generally are not going to reject you as a possibility based on your looks. (You do, however, need to be well-groomed and appear to be healthy. If you obviously don’t take…

Men who prefer to mate with blond women are subconsciously attempting to mate with younger (and on average, healthier and more fertile) women. And by the way, it’s not a coincidence that blond hair evolved in Scandinavia and northern Europe. The women in those days concealed their bodies under heavy clothing, so blond hair gave them a way to advertise…

When it comes to men identifying women that they want as sex partners whether it’s for a one-night stand, or a long-term relationship they are slaves to their biological programming. (Women are, too, but in different ways.) A field of science called “evolutionary biology” explains how many of our thoughts, feelings and behaviors are driven by our biology, otherwise known…

The “higher up” women perceive you to be on this Dominance Scale, the more attractive you will be to them. She might tell herself (and her friends) that she’s only into tall guys, or rich guys, or guys who look like UFC fighters. But if she perceives you to have high social status, you will make her feel attraction. This…

Now I want to explain another fundamental concept that you must learn and start applying because when you do, women will be intrigued to meet you before you ever walk up to them! What I’m about to share with you should eliminate the silly concerns that hold a lot of men back from approaching namely, that you’ve got to be…