The Mack is always in Negotiator mode with regards to women, whether it’s the initial conversation or a fourth date. Anything she asks for should be viewed as a demand that needs to be addressed in a Tactical manner. And when a Mack chooses to meet one of those demands, he does not allow it to be taken for granted.

You’ll do this in a subtle way. You’re not laying guilt trips on her every time you do the slightest thing for her. You don’t make a big deal out of the fact that you paid for her drink or her meal. But when you give her these things, you use Creative Phrasing to reinforce in her mind that A) she has earned it, and B) you are making an effort that you wouldn’t make for any ordinary girl.

Wack Tactic: “Can I buy you a drink?”

Mack Tactic: “I’m really enjoying this conversation. I’d like to go ahead and buy you a drink.”

The applications are endless. Let’s say you pick up a girl, for a date, and it’s cold outside. She gets in your car, and as you start driving…

Wack Tactic: “Are you cold? Should I turn on the heat?”

Mack Tactic: “I don’t want you to catch a cold, so let me turn on the heat. Let me know if it gets too hot.”  Or, if you’re vibing with a girl in a crowded bar…

Wack Tactic: “Do you want to go sit down somewhere?”

Mack Tactic: “Come on, I’m going to find you a seat. I don’t want you standing here by the bar with all these drunk people pushing up against you.”