These openers are more advanced. They require you to convey two things in a big way: playfulness and confidence. If you use Flirt Openers correctly, they can be extremely effective and fast-track the seduction. You can skip a lot of the “getting to you know you” stuff and take things to a sexual level very fast.
Before you use a Flirt Opener, you should have an indication that she’s open to you approaching her, and possibly interested. This is usually as simple as you making eye contact with her from across the room, and exchanging a smile with her.
Then, maintaining your smile and eye contact, you walk up to her and say…
“You’re so cute, what’s your name?” (The word “cute” sounds playful and harmless. Don’t say “hot” or “beautiful.”)
“I hope your boyfriend isn’t around, because I am totally going to flirt with you right now.”
“How do you expect me to not flirt with you right now, when you’re wearing that outfit and smiling at me?”
“I have to say, you are radiating so much positive energy. You must have had a really great day or something. I had to come over here and find out more.”
Other Openers
Here’s a cool one I picked up from the dating guru Swinggcat:
“Hey guys, I need a quick opinion about something. My friend just got two puppies, a Pug and a Beagle. She wants to name them after an 80’s pop duo… she wants to name them “Duran Duran,” which I think is a horrible idea. You can’t have two dogs with the same name. Do you guys have any ideas? I was thinking Sonny and Cher would be a good one, because the Pug dog is a male and the Beagle dog is a female. But they’re 70’s, not 80’s, so that won’t work. Maybe Axl and Slash would be good, but they’re rock n’ roll hair band style. Milli Vanilli was a thought, but those are both guy names. We need a female name. Plus, Milli doesn’t fit a Pug or a Beagle…”
The topic of Eighties Music can be used for a variety of openers. This one is from the pickup artist “Twentysix”:
“Hey guys, help me out, I have this song stuck in my head ALL day and I can’t remember who sings it. It goes “you spin me right round baby right round / like a record player right round, round round, etc….” who sings that??? … I was talking to my mom earlier today and she said its Lionel Richie… but I KNOW that isn’t right!”
(By the way, the name of the band is Dead Or Alive. Or, use any other “one hit wonder” 1980’s act/song..there are a ton of them, and those songs are catchy as hell!)
This one, the “Elvis opener,” is from the famous pickup artist “Mystery”:
“Did you know that Elvis dyed his hair black? It’s true. His natural hair color was dirty blond. Did you know that his wife Priscilla Presley also dyed her hair? I don’t know what her natural hair color was, I’m not Cliff Claven, but can you picture that these two every couple of weeks would dye their hair black together around a dirty sink in some sick mass-appealing ceremonial ritual? I bet people never considered that before … did you?”
Here’s another one I’ve used before:
“Hey, I need a female opinion real quick… we were at the mall today and this one store was selling $400 tee-shirts. $400! When girls see guys wearing shirts like that, do they think its classy, or does it look like they’re trying too hard?”
Here’s a really good one, the “Mr. Big” routine by Dr. Paul…
“Hey, have you seen the show Sex and the City? I was just talking to those girls over there and they told me I remind them of ‘Mr. Big.’ Is that good or bad?
Them: “Ooooohhh we LOVE Mr. Big!!”
Personally, I think Sex & The City was a brilliant show that contained many interesting insights about dating from the perspective of modern women. In case you didn’t watch it, “Mr. Big” was the guy who kept popping in and out of the main female character’s life…a suave, mysterious, wealthy businessman who she had an on-and-off relationship with. The dude was a total Alpha Male. Trust me: 99% of women I know loved that show, and mentioning “Mr Big” will moisten their panties.
Here’s a fun one to try out…
You: Hey, I saw you on MySpace!
Her: From where? (Or: Really?)
You: Yeah, they had this new category called ‘Very Very Bad Girls’ …and they said that I should avoid you, but I dunno, you don’t seem like a troublemaker…
And another one inspired by Mystery…
“Hey, my friend over there just got invited to be on the Tyra Banks show. But the theme of the show is Secret Admirers. They told him he’s got an admirer, but he won’t find out who it is until he’s live on the set. So maybe it’ll be someone cute, but maybe not; it might even be a guy. What would you do if you were him?”