Mack Tactics contains many solid approach tips, but in this article I’m going to go into much greater detail and provide newer and updated tips and techniques.

This is essential stuff if your goal is to go out there and start meeting and attracting more women.

Some experts will tell you to focus on developing your inner game (your self-confidence and outlook on women, and life); others teach the art of flirting; and some explain how to pull off Same Night Lays (how to maneuver women into bed the same night that you meet them).

These are all important. But the bottom line is that you’ll never get the chance to flirt, display your inner game, or have wild & crazy sex with gorgeous women if you lack the ability to effectively approach and engage them in conversations.

And not just any old lame conversation the type of chit-chat that women have to put up with every time they go to a bar and get approached by douche bags.

I’m talking about making an approach, and engaging her in a conversation, that’s going to stimulate her curiosity and attraction and will result in you getting her phone number (and having her actually look forward to your call, instead of not answering), or escalating to a physical/sexual level with her that same night.

If you’re not able to approach attractive women without hesitation, then literally every day of your life you are allowing golden opportunities to pass you by. Think of all the beautiful girls you see on a daily basis, but don’t talk to! Of course, in some situations, it wouldn’t be appropriate to approach a woman and start chatting.

But in the majority of cases, that girl you are checking out would be open to talking to you, knowing more about you, and seeing you again if only you’d had the right mindset and the skills to walk up to her and get it started.

But the initial act of approaching the girl, and trying to start a conversation, is a nerve-wracking proposition for most guys. It doesn’t matter whether they’re standing in a bar, or staring at a beauty in the bookstore, or at the park or the gym.

They’d love to walk up and take a shot, but they just don’t know what to say…

Lots of material has been written about approaching women. Some of it is quite useful, but a lot of it is junk. Different experts advocate different styles of approaching. “Direct openers. “Indirect openers.” “Question openers.” “Opinion openers.” “Joke openers.” “I’m taking a survey” openers. Etc.

Some guys try to learn and use them all. But do you really need to have a mental Rolodex filled with 101 different ways to walk up and start a conversation?

No, I think you only need to know a few methods that work. And once you’ve used them a number of times to “break the ice” and start conversations, approaching women and beginning the process of seduction will feel like second nature to you.

With the right approach, you will communicate things that will start the interaction in a positive way that works to your advantage. I’ll explain all of this in detail later, but before we get into specific approach tactics, I want to run down some concepts in the succeeding articles that are important for you to understand…