Men’s actions are greatly influenced by logic, while women act through their instinct. It can never be denied that men and women are perfectly opposites.
In fact, most men are attracted with oozing physical qualities as big breasts, voluptuous curves and a beautiful face.
We often crave for club goddesses and modeling ramp queens.Yes, smart and witty women are attractive as well. But, these two qualities come in second behind sex appeal.
On the other hand, women are on the opposite end of the pole. First, they love being pampered and being challenged. Thus, in contradictory to what we normally think, women love attention from men. However, too much attention tends to bore them very extremely.
Men try to prove that they are the best boyfriend women can ever have in her entire life.
We make ourselves hundred one percent available to her. We go by her rules. We do everything in exchange of her approval.
Do you know that doing these stuffs won’t help in being the best and the most attractive man for your girl?
Let me tell you something, men are men. We should never treat women beyond normal. It is not wrong to be romantic and kind to these people. But, it is wrong to make ourselves inferior and insecure in front of them. And talking about insecurity; there are numerous acts that men like us are doing that make it obvious for the opposite sex that are feeling timid with the latter. I know that the statement that I just mentioned was quite bewildering. Therefore, allow me to clear my point here.
When Men Use Pick Up Lines
Most men who try pick up girls in clubs used to start the conversation with the boring and predictable question and answer thing. These fellows happen to trace anything that they have in common with the person being spoken to.
“So, you’re from New York?”
“What do you do for a living?”
These are just two of the most usual questions that we, men, are asking these beautiful pieces of God’s creation.
These girls had been dealing with men with these statements over and over again.
Therefore, acting so typical in front with them makes them respond typically as well.
This faulty tactic will certainly make you spend several hours of trying to go for a pleasant conversation and make you burn out a big amount of hard- earned cash in exchange of nothing.
The tendency is you will just be given a response about how busy they are to entertain a dinner or a movie date with you.
In line with these, bear in mind that women love challenges and desire for something unusual and upbeat. That’s the point that I am telling you.
More elaborately, allow me to give you the three mistakes that most men commit in dealing with girls. These mistakes had been the reason behind the difficulty of these men to let gorgeous girls accept an extremely wild date invitation.
First, trying to befriends girls at first and taking advantage of that friendship in the later time are considered faulty. Befriending a girl whom you are focusing your attention with will just give you a backfire. Why? The girl will just make you a listener to her problems and heartaches. This scenario will never give you the chance to bring her in bed as planned. For you will be stuck into this best friend material as she thought you to be.
Second, hanging up with only one girl is never a good idea as well. As the saying goes, “Never put all your eggs in one basket.” Making yourself available to her in order to convince her that you are the best boyfriend she can ever have is a threat to your social value. Women love men who possess a high social value and those who frame themselves as a guy whom women pursue. To do this, use a cocky and playful conversation. Show confidence and unique style. Do you want to know why? Girls love challenges. The harder you pull yourself away from them, the harder they pull you back.
Lastly, courting and speaking to women in conventional way such as inviting her for a dinner, buying gifts and other stuffs of old- school tactics will work against you. She will just consider you as one of the guys she happened to meet before. Instead, meet her for a coffee or get her along with you in creative activities as scuba diving, rock climbing and some sorts.
The knowledge on these mistakes enables us men to avoid committing them. Chances are girls will see you as a challenging and attractive more than any man does.