How to date girls
In order to get girls to feel sexually attracted to you, you need to demonstrate that you’re a high-value guy who isn’t sure if she’s up to your standards.
Women want what they can’t have. They love a guy who is a challenge. This is why you’ve got to show some “cocky confidence” and make her feel like she’s going to have to work to get a guy like you!
Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #1
Use backhanded compliments. These are statements that sound like compliments initially, but then you slip in a “jab.” (These should sound like playful teases, not insults.) This technique is also known as Push/Pull.
“You’re the funnest girl I’ve met…in the last five minutes.”
(If she’s dressed sexy) “That’s a hot outfit…you remind me of a stripper I met in Vegas who stole my wallet. Did you used to dance at the Crazy Horse by any chance?”
“You’re funny, but I detect a bitchy high-maintenance vibe from you. I bet all your ex-boyfriends say you’re a handful.”
When she protests and playfully slaps you on the arm, you say “only kidding. Actually, not really…but it’s okay, you seem fun. Are you fun?”
Dating Women: Proven Tactics
How To Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #2
Mention how you two shouldn’t date, or aren’t compatible. This technique always catches women by surprise…and makes them feel curious to know more about you, because you’re doing the exact opposite of what most guys do! Say things like…
“You I could never be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re way too much alike.
We’d probably clash all the time, and then have crazy, wild make-up sex and wake up all the neighbors…and then we’d break up again the next day and you’d throw my clothes out in the front yard…it would be hot, but a whole lot of drama.”
“It’s too bad I swore off dating girls like you…” (change the subject and don’t explain)
Tell a story that mentions “your girlfriend.” (You can always surmount this later by mentioning how it was your ex-girlfriend; this story took place a long time ago.)
“I love women who are tall/short/blonde/Asian/etc. (something she is not)
“I’m all wrong for you. You’re probably used to dating boring, nice guys who kiss your butt and bring you flowers on the first date.”
“You’re such a nice girl — maybe you shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble.”
“You’re really sweet…but seriously, you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I’m more like the guy your mom warned you about.”
Put her in the Friend Zone. This tactic is also very powerful because it reverses the normal roles. Usually it’s women who put guys in the Friend Zone, right? But you can do it to her!
“You’re like the little sister I never had.” (Or, “You remind me so much of one of my little sister’s friends.”)
“It’s good we met, I don’t know if we’re right for each other but we can be friends for sure.”
“I can tell you would make a great friend. You’re so nice.”
How To Get Girls, Tip #3
In order to get girls to feel sexually attracted to you, you need to demonstrate that you’re a high-value guy who isn’t sure if she’s up to yourstandards.
Women want what they can’t have. They love a guy who is a challenge. This is why you’ve got to show some “cocky confidence” and make her feel like she’s going to have to work to get a guy like you!
Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #1
Use backhanded compliments. These are statements that sound like compliments initially, but then you slip in a “jab.” (These should sound like playful teases, not insults.) This technique is also known as Push/Pull.
“You’re the funnest girl I’ve met…in the last five minutes.”
(If she’s dressed sexy) “That’s a hot outfit…you remind me of a stripper I met in Vegas who stole my wallet. Did you used to dance at the Crazy Horse by any chance?”
“You’re funny, but I detect a bitchy high-maintenance vibe from you. I bet all your ex-boyfriends say you’re a handful.”
When she protests and playfully slaps you on the arm, you say “only kidding. Actually, not really…but it’s okay, you seem fun. Are you fun?”
How To Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #2
Mention how you two shouldn’t date, or aren’t compatible. This technique always catches women by surprise…and makes them feel curious to know more about you, because you’re doing the exact opposite of what most guys do! Say things like…
“You I could never be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re way too much alike. We’d probably clash all the time, and then have crazy, wild make-up sex and wake up all the neighbors…and then we’d break up again the next day and you’d throw my clothes out in the front yard…it would be hot, but a whole lot of drama.”
“It’s too bad I swore off dating girls like you…” (change the subject and don’t explain)
Tell a story that mentions “your girlfriend.” (You can always surmount this later by mentioning how it was your ex-girlfriend; this story took place a long time ago.)
“I love women who are tall/short/blonde/Asian/etc. (something she is not)
“I’m all wrong for you. You’re probably used to dating boring, nice guys who kiss your butt and bring you flowers on the first date.”
“You’re such a nice girl — maybe you shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble.”
“You’re really sweet…but seriously, you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I’m more like the guy your mom warned you about.”
Put her in the Friend Zone. This tactic is also very powerful because it reverses the normal roles. Usually it’s women who put guys in the Friend Zone, right? But you can do it to her!
“You’re like the little sister I never had.” (Or, “You remind me so much of one of my little sister’s friends.”)
“It’s good we met, I don’t know if we’re right for each other but we can be friends for sure.”
“I can tell you would make a great friend. You’re so nice.”
How To Get Girls, Tip #3
Blame All Flirtations On Her. This is another fun way to “turn the tables” and show confidence. Play around with her and get her to start feeling some attraction, and then “blame” her for what’s happening:
“Here I am trying to have a serious conversation with you, and you keep giving me flirty looks. Cut it out, would you? It’s distracting.”
“If you keep looking at me that way, I’m going to have to turn on the charm and seduce you.”
“If you don’t stop being so cute, you’re going to force me to start hitting on you.”
“I hope your boyfriend isn’t around, because if you keep smiling at me that way I’m going to be forced to start flirting with you.”
(Notice, you’re not telling her you are hitting on her/flirting with you right now. You’re saying that it might happen soon, and it’s going to be “her fault.”)
“I really ought to get home because I have work tomorrow, but if you keep flirting me like this you’re going to force me to have another drink with you.”
“You’re making me think such naughty thoughts. Do you have voodoo powers or something? Stop it, I’m trying to concentrate on what you’re saying.”
“You are totally trying to seduce me right now. Stop looking at me that way. I promised myself I’d be celibate for the next 30 days and you’re messing everything up.”
“I’m don’t know why, but you keep making me think about us going to the mall and picking out a bunch of sexy lingerie for you at Victoria’s Secret. Cut it out, OK? I don’t want to be thinking about that stuff right now.”
“I came out tonight to have a couple of beers and chill, and then you come along and force me to start flirting with you. It;s all your fault for wearing that dress.”
How To Get A Girl, Tip #4
Employ her/fire her: “I like you. I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.” Or, “I’ve always thought that my life would make a great book. I’m hiring you as my personal biographer. Start taking notes.” (If she knows how to build websites, make her your website developer. If photography is one of her hobbies, she’s now your personal photographer. Or your chef. Or personal trainer…)
Then, when she does something dorky or gives a lame answer to one of your questions, you “fire” her: “That’s it — you’re fired. Tell the cute blonde over there she can submit her resume.” Blame All Flirtations On Her. This is another fun way to “turn the tables” and show confidence. Play around with her and get her to start feeling some attraction, and then “blame” her for what’s happening:
“Here I am trying to have a serious conversation with you, and you keep giving me flirty looks. Cut it out, would you? It’s distracting.”
“If you keep looking at me that way, I’m going to have to turn on the charm and seduce you.”
“If you don’t stop being so cute, you’re going to force me to start hitting on you.”
“I hope your boyfriend isn’t around, because if you keep smiling at me that way I’m going to be forced to start flirting with you.”
(Notice, you’re not telling her you are hitting on her/flirting with you right now. You’re saying that it might happen soon, and it’s going to be “her fault.”)
“I really ought to get home because I have work tomorrow, but if you keep flirting me like this you’re going to force me to have another drink with you.”
“You’re making me think such naughty thoughts. Do you have voodoo powers or something? Stop it, I’m trying to concentrate on what you’re saying.”
“You are totally trying to seduce me right now. Stop looking at me that way. I promised myself I’d be celibate for the next 30 days and you’re messing everything up.”
“I’m don’t know why, but you keep making me think about us going to the mall and picking out a bunch of sexy lingerie for you at Victoria’s Secret. Cut it out, OK? I don’t want to be thinking about that stuff right now.”
“I came out tonight to have a couple of beers and chill, and then you come along and force me to start flirting with you. It;s all your fault for wearing that dress.”
How To Get A Girl, Tip #4
Employ her/fire her: “I like you. I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.” Or, “I’ve always thought that my life would make a great book. I’m hiring you as my personal biographer. Start taking notes.” (If she knows how to build websites, make her your website developer. If photography is one of her hobbies, she’s now your personal photographer. Or your chef. Or personal trainer…)
Then, when she does something dorky or gives a lame answer to one of your questions, you “fire” her: “That’s it — you’re fired. Tell the cute blonde over there she can submit her resume.” Click here for more