Negotiators constantly use Creative Phrasing with hostage takers. One example is how a Negotiator will never use the word “gun.” in the conversation.

Instead of saying, “I need you to lower that gun,” he’ll say “I need you to lower that thing.” Why? Because the word “gun” carries violent connotations that might make the hostage taker more excitable. Calling it a “thing” diminishes the weapon’s power.

Apply the same principle when a girl talks about her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend.

Never refer to him by his name; refer to him as “that guy,” thereby diminishing his significance.

He is not an actual person to you. He is a pigment of the past, not even worth discussing.

HER: “My ex, John, was such a lying bastard. We were engaged to be married and I found out he was sleeping with my best friend.”

YOU: “It sounds like that guy didn’t deserve you, but I know you’ve moved on and you’ve got a lot of cool things going on. I actually want to hear more about your dog, I’ve been thinking about getting a pet but I’m not sure if a dog or a cat is the way to go…”

By using effective Mack tactics technique, there’s a high possibility that a girl will agree to have a date with you.

Note: Get a woman on the subject of her pets, and watch her start smiling and chatting away…