Don’t be afraid to touch women you’re talking to in order to help strengthen the comfort and connection you’re building with her.
Subtly touching her on the forearm or shoulder when you start to tell her something new can do wonders.
If she starts to touch you back, she is signaling that she feels comfortable enough to invade your personal space.
Depending on where you touch a woman, she’s going to signal how comfortable she is with you.
Typically, the hand, wrist, forearms, shoulders, and knee are the “low risk” zones. They’re areas of a woman’s body you can touch to initiate contact with her.
The next step up from that is the elbow, the waist, the thighs, the hips, and the back.
This is slightly more intrusive and requires greater comfort on the woman’s part to allow you to touch there without her retreating.
Finally, there’s the face, neck, inner thigh, and chest area. You can only successfully touch a woman in these areas if she is completely comfortable with you.
Typically, if you notice you can touch these areas without the girl retreating or reacting badly, she is ready to be kissed.b if you’re deft enough to pay attention to them.
I’m going to share some secrets about eye contact with you that is going to help you meet women like crazy.
I hope you’re ready for them, because I’m really spilling the beans here.
Are you ready for it?
Here they come…
Secret #1: The Vertical Scan
This is a major body language cue, and one that is hard to pick up if you’re not paying attention. Think about a woman you’ve seen that you found attractive.
What did you do? Catch one look at her face, then looked down over her body, going from head to foot, right?
Secret #2: The Horizontal Scan
you’re in the home stretch!
This usually occurs after you’ve been talking to the girl for a while, you’ve successfully attracted her, and it’s time to kiss.
When you look deep into her eyes, you’ll see them flicking back and forth as she looks from one eye of yours to the other, trying to get a read on you.
When you see this happen, go for the kiss right there! She’s ready for it!
Secret #3: Dilated Pupils
I’ve mentioned this one before, but I’ll reiterate it here. A woman’s dilated pupils is an unconscious attraction response. The wider the pupils, the more attracted and excited the woman is getting.
You’ll know what you’re doing is working when you look into a woman’s eyes and notice the black iris part is rather large.
This is commonly referred to as the “Doggy Dinner Look,” that you’ll see in cartoons when a dog is silently begging for it’s master to feed it Secret #4: The Eye Contact Test
I think you’re really going to like this secret, because I’m going to share a little trick with you that I’ve developed that really makes it easy to meet a woman.
Too often, guys are simply too nervous to approach a girl because of the extreme amount of uncertainty involved. Think about it. What runs through your head when you want to meet a woman?
• “Am I her type?”
• “Does she have a boyfriend?”
• “Will she find me attractive?”
• “Maybe she’s too busy to meet anyone.”
• “Will she be receptive to me talking to her?”
I’m sure you can think of a 100 more things that run through your mind when you see an approach opportunity come your way.
The next time you go out, do this to every woman you see. Lock your eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee you, you’ll be surprised by the results.