Here’s How To Kiss A Girl For The First Time

Hey, it’s your wingman Dean Cortez and I’m here with a special blog post on how to kiss a girl for the first time (and do it WITHOUT any risk of rejection). I want to show you an email I received from one of our M.A.C.K. Tactics subscribers. Read it until the end, because you’re about to discover some VERY valuable secrets, including the answers to these questions…

* Have you ever “liked” a girl, but you wished you knew how to turn it from a “friendship” into something more romantic?

* Have you ever felt nervous about when to try to kiss a girl for the first time?

* Do you want to know an AUTOMATIC WAY to know when she’s ready to be kissed, so that you NEVER need to worry about rejection?

Figuring out when and how to kiss a girl for the first time can be one of the most confusing and stressful situations you face. You know that once you get the first kiss, it’s pretty much smooth sailing the rest of the way. But you also know that if you try to kiss a girl and get rejected, you’re screwed — it’s a terribly embarrassing situation.

So for the “inside scoop” on how to kiss a girl (and get her to kiss you back), read this blog post — it’s loaded with tactics!

Here’s the letter I received from a subscriber…

DEAN, AM I STILL IN THE FRIEND ZONE?

“Yo Dean,

I’m working my way through the M.A.C.K. Tactics book…I’m underlining stuff and taking notes as I go, because it’s PACKED with information! I have a question about the chapter on ‘escalating’ with women. I’ve been hanging out for the past couple of months with this girl I like, and after reading your “Escalation” tips I’ve started using flirty language with her and building physical contact so that she knows I want to be ‘more than friends’ with her.

But I still haven’t kissed her. Do you think I’m still in the Friend Zone?”

– Dave S., New York

>>>DEAN CORTEZ RESPONDS>>>

Yes, brother, you are still in the Friend Zone.

You NEED to get that kiss, and show her you are more than her “buddy.”

The “first kiss” is a big deal because it draws a line in the sand.

It makes it clear that this is NOT a “just friends” type of relationship.

The next time you hang out, you need to KISS her and cross that line…

So let me show you how.

Take her out for a fun night (personally, I like taking the girl to a cool, laidback bar for a few cocktails), and use the Physical Escalation moves that I explain in the Mack Tactics book.

(Check Page 61 for the “stealth” move that I always use…it works like MAGIC.)

It all starts very innocently…

You tell the funny story on Page 57 and when she laughs, you high-five her and clasp her hand…

Or you challenge her to a thumb-wrestling contest (and you let her win…)

Or you use one of the “Mind Reading Tricks” on Page 89 and when she tells you how AMAZED she is by what you said, you put your hand on her knee…etc…

If you’ve been touching her in flirtatious ways throughout the evening and she’s been touching you back, you shouldn’t encounter any resistance when you go for the kiss.

Now here’s how to GET the first kiss…

How To Kiss A Girl: The “Almost Kiss” Tactic

#1 Say to her: “I don’t know if we’re ready for a kiss yet, but I think we’re ready for an ‘almost’ kiss. I want you to be good…don’t take advantage of me, ok? I just want you to hold still, sit on your hands, and you can get close…but we CAN’T kiss.”

(I love this tactic because you are TEASING the girl so hard…now here’s what to do next…)

Bring yourself very close to her lips, but don’t kiss her or make her think that you are trying to kiss her. Let some tension build for a couple of seconds and then move away.

In a few minutes, you can say “I think we’re ready for another almost kiss.”

Then, do the same thing. She will more than likely kiss you this time. If not, try again in another few minutes.

(It’s never taken me more than 3 times to get a kiss this way.)

ANOTHER “HOW TO KISS A GIRL” METHOD…

Are you still wondering how to kiss a girl? Well, if it’s a girl that you just met tonight, use the Escalation Sequence in the M.A.C.K. Tactics book to gradually escalate.

Remember, there are two types of escalation: Verbal and Physical.

You should move forward with both types of escalation at the same time.

The Verbal stuff involves teasing her, flirting with her, and “framing” yourself as a hard-to-please guy who she’ll need to IMPRESS…

A guy who has OTHER OPTIONS.

This is accomplished through “planting seeds” in her mind about the OTHER WOMEN you hang out with.

(Check out the “Conversation Control” chapter in the M.A.C.K. Tactics book to learn how to do this smoothly and WITHOUT any risk of rejection.)

Now, as for the Physical stuff, this involves TOUCHING her.

Not in a weird or creepy way…

In a fun, playful way…that BUILDS towards more intimate and romantic forms of touching.

The touches will be very slight and subtle at first, and as she becomes comfortable with your touch, you’ll gradually touch her in more intimate ways.

Eventually, if you continue to properly escalate (verbally and physically), she’ll start giving you signals that she’s READY to be kissed.

Now it’s your job to MAN UP and give her what she wants.

When you’re standing close together, glance at her lips…look back into her eyes…look back at her lips…and say “your lips look so soft. I’m going to give you a quick kiss.”

Then give her a brief kiss, and follow it with a compliment: “I was right, your lips ARE soft.”

Notice, you didn’t ask permission for the kiss.

You TELL her you’re going to give her a “quick kiss,” and then do it!

If you’ve laid the groundwork correctly — if you’ve got her feeling comfortable with your touch, and she’s giving you the signals — she’ll go along with it.

The glancing-back-and-forth from her lips, to eyes, to lips has a hypnotic effect on a woman.

Usually, she won’t put up any resistance. You kiss her, compliment her, and go back to what you were talking about a moment ago.

Treat the first kiss like it’s NO BIG DEAL.

** Another reason why this tactic is powerful is that you’re building COMPLIANCE.

This means you’re TELLING her what’s going to happen next, instead of asking permission all the time (which is what most guys do).

Y’know, asking stuff like this…

“Do you mind if I buy you a drink?”

“If you’re not busy, would you like to hang
out sometime?”

“Would you like to go back to my place?”

And so on…

That’s WEAK language. Don’t use it!

One of the “secrets” about women (which they never tell you) is that they secretly want to be LED by a masculine man.

They don’t want to have decisions all the time when they’re with you.

They want you to LAY OUT how it’s going to go.

They want to FOLLOW YOUR LEAD.

So let’s take those three “weak” questions that I mentioned before, and re-phrase them in Mack Language:

“I’m going to buy you a drink, because you seem interesting…but now I want to find out if you’re fun.”

“I’m going to a really cool spot this weekend, and you seem like fun. You’d love this place. When are you free, Friday night or Saturday night?”

“Let’s go back to my place, I’ve got a video I want to show you — you’re going to laugh your butt off — and we’ll have a glass of my favorite red wine.”

MORE TACTICS ON HOW TO KISS A GIRL…

Another tactic I use to get the first kiss: when I’m up close with the girl, I say “you totally want to kiss me, don’t you.”

She’ll usually smile, blush, and play it off.

So then I say, “But we just met, so we should only kiss on the cheek. I’ll give you one, then you can give me one.”

I’ll gently put my hands on either side of her face, tilt her face to the side, and plant a soft kiss on her cheek.

Then I gently tilt her head to the other side and kiss her other cheek. And then I lean in and allow her to kiss MY cheek.

This is an intimate little exchange (and kissing her on both cheeks feels okay, since it’s the “European way” of greeting someone).

Then I say, “Now that we’ve kissed on the cheek, you can kiss me on the lips later.”

And I go back to what we were talking about.

Again, treat it like it’s no big deal.

Later, I’ll tell her how soft her lips look…I’ll do the “hypnotic” move I explained earlier…and I’ll get the REAL kiss.

I’ll often use these tactics when I’m dancing with a girl. I’ll admit, I’m not much of a dancer, so I don’t take girls on the dance floor…

I just “dance” with her wherever we happen to be standing. (Usually we’re near the bar area.)

This means I just start moving to the music a little, from side to side. I’ll put my hands on her waist, stare into her eyes, smile, and then use the “hypnotic” tactic.

Just remember, you should NOT use this tactic until you’ve laid the groundwork and done some verbal and physical escalation.

You’ve got to “warm her up.”

And it’s easy when you follow the step-by-step plan that I explain in the M.A.C.K. Tactics book.

But I’m not finished yet. Here are some more “kissing tactics” to use once you’ve brought her home…

HOW TO KISS A GIRL BACK AT YOUR PLACE

Whatever reason you give her for bringing her back to your place (be sure to closely read the Closing The Deal chapter to learn how to phrase it), it should allow you to position yourself next to her and touch her.

Have her sit on your lap while you show her something on the computer. Or, lie down with her on your couch to watch a movie.

I’ve even used the video game “Guitar Hero” to get laid!

Have you ever played it? It’s super popular…

Basically, the game comes with a plastic guitar which you hold…just like a real guitar…and you push buttons to play along with the music.

The closer you’re able to play along with the music, the higher your score will be.

Back at my place, I’ll show the girl how to play.

I’ll stand behind her, put my arms around her, and help her push the right buttons on the guitar.

This is a GREAT way to build physical contact, and we’re both having fun as we “jam” along to the music. Girls love this game!

Of if you want to show her a book or magazine, sit next to her on your couch and spread it across both of your laps.

You get the idea. Get up close with her. It’s up to you to suggest where the two of you will relax. You don’t want her to choose a chair five feet away from you.

When you’ve got her back at your place, you can TOUCH her lips (or her hair) to get the kiss, if you haven’t already gotten it.

Lightly touching her lips or her hair, and making a comment on how “soft” they are, is a great way to get the kiss.

Gently touch her lips with your finger and say “Your lips are so soft.” Then move your hand away. If she smiles, touch them again and give them a soft caress.

While doing this, glance at her lips, and then look into her eyes. Then look back down at her lips. If she doesn’t move away, you know she’s ready for you to kiss her.

You can do the same thing with her hair. Touch the tips of her hair while you’re talking to her. Make a comment on how her hair looks or feels “so soft.”

Then move your hand away.

If she smiles and seems to likes it, reach over again and stroke her hair.

While doing this, glance at her lips and back to her eyes few times. If she doesn’t try to move away, you know she’s ready for the kiss.

This is your moment. Go for it!

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez