Imagine yourself sitting in a bar, drinking your favorite cocktail, then all of a sudden a hot woman emerges and you are instantly hook with her gorgeous features and amazing aura. However, you got one big problem; you do not know how to talk to her and ultimately, ask her out.
Your friends, uncle and maybe even your dad already told various routines to you. Nevertheless, none of the tips they said to you actually works.
Lucky for you, there are ten proven ways and tactics to ask a girl out. These tips are not from someone who is pretending to be the ultimate dude; they came straight from the source.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #1 Ask her for a lunch
The trick regarding this tip is not to directly ask her to go with you for a lunch. You need to create the situation as if it transpired naturally.
Few years ago, while I am still in college and very busy with classes and activities. I am having my lunch at the cafeteria when all of a sudden, a beautiful and gorgeous girl entered. She was on her way to approach a group of students, maybe her friends. Then, I stood and said “Come on, I’m taking you to lunch.” She was definitely in shock and awe; I approached her, held her hand and said “Ok?” She asked me if I’m joking, and I simply said “I was hoping not.” We went to a place near the school and ended up having a quick lunch, and now, few years later, we’re engaged.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #2 Present An Aura Of Machismo
Believe it or not, women have the tendency to be prejudice in choosing their date. Most often than not, they will rather choose a man with an aura of machismo over a timid, shy guy. Present yourself as some sort of a military man with intimidating posture and unfazed gaze. By doing this, she will definitely notice you even though you are in a crowded place. Your machismo will just surface naturally. Moreover, the good thing with this tactic is that you are attracting multiple girls. In the end, you just have to choose.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #3 Ask For Her Number
The trick here is that you need to establish an ongoing conversation, while in other situation, asking a girl’s number instantly and abruptly often works. And in some cases, it simply doesn’t work in that manner. That is why it is very important to evaluate the environment, and if opportunity sparks then go for it. To get a real number, you need to spend at least 15 minutes talking to the girl; otherwise, there is a great chance that she will just give you a fake number. Your job as a man is to lead a woman into having good feelings with you. Leading is not timorously asking a girl if she could do you the honor of giving you her phone number. Getting good with girls is about learning how to sub-communicate. When you ask questions, even asking if it’s fine to get her phone number, what you sub-communicate is that you are in a relative position of weakness compared to her.
To perform this effectively, you need to dazzle her with a non-scary yet confident charm. Lastly, the worst thing you want to do is to freak her out.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #4 Push yourself out of your comfort zone to ask her out
Presenting yourself like some sort of a courageous, unfazed man will definitely make a girl attracted to you. In most cases, a girl will be fascinated by your actions that simply asking her out will suffice.
Few years ago, I was in a train, which is very crowded. I saw a beautiful girl and I started making eye contact with her. Because of the immense crowd, we got separated into different train cars. To ask her out, I opened the door that says “Do Not Open.” That courageous act scared her, but ultimately, it made her decide quickly to say yes.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #5 Act like a doctor and give her a prescription
Role-playing is an effective way to ask a girl out, especially if you are having trouble figuring how to start the conversation and lead it to a date. By doing this, you will put yourself in a situation wherein you can totally act it out, way beyond your actual personality. This will give you the chance to adjust easily depending on how the girl reacts.
Approach a girl and act like a doctor, make sure you have a piece of paper. Tell her that the paper is a prescription sheet intended for her. Write something like “As your doctor, I’m prescribing you to have a date with me.”
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #6 Create a game that will hook her into you
Rigging a new brand of game that is extremely fun will definitely amaze a girl. This will add up to your attraction points. This will not just present you as a cool guy but also a smart one. Just make sure that it is not entirely stupid. A game rigged from cards is useful because it enables you to devise easily a new game. Also, the cards can also serve as a calling card wherein she can write her number and you can also give yours.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #7 Give her a mission
A friend of mine did this tactics. At a store, a little kid walked in and handed me a tape player with three balloons: Red, yellow and green. When the girl played the tape, it said something like, “Your mission, if you choose to accept it, is to accept my invitation to a day going mini-golfing and having lunch.” The final instructions were to walk outside and release one balloon: Red for no, yellow for maybe, green for yes. The girl released the green balloon. And the guy was on a hill a ways away with some binoculars. When he saw the balloon, the same little kid came back and handed address of the mini-golf place. This is an innovative way on how to ask a girl out.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #8 Emphasize your similarities
A sure-fire way to make a girl have a date with you is to establish chemistry. Chemistry is something innate and natural, but if you’re not having a chemistry with a girl, you can actually work your way around. At the start of the conversation, determine your similarities, then keep on emphasizing them and seed the idea to her that you both definitely have an amazing chemistry and asking a girl out will not be that difficult..
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #9 Get creative with what she’s into
Stray away from the traditional route, women of today are tired of typical dating routines such as flowers, chocolates, formal dinner and watching movies. Think out of the box, imagine new ideas on how you can make say yes, instead of trying to hard doing the typical tactics. Mind you, beautiful girls are usually familiar on how guys do their moves. Being different sets you apart.
How To Ask A Girl Out Tip #10 Thrill of the chase
Most girls love the idea of being challenge to strike a man’s attention. They don’t want to go out with a guy who seems to be below their status. A guy who doesn’t have confidence, extremely timid and lame are the typical types who usually get rejected. That is why it is important to establish a degree of attraction towards you. In the end, when you ask a girl out, it seems to be effortless.