In a busy bar or nightclub, the hot chick never has any shortage of guys willing to step up and take a shot at her. She expects men to jump at the opportunity to buy her a drink and talk to her.
She’s essentially giving them the chance to “audition” for her, a role which the average guy eagerly accepts. In this type of environment, the advanced Mack may take an opposite approach. Instead of trying to engage her in a conversation right off the bat, he’ll introduce himself, get a positive reaction, then excuse himself and walk away.
This knocks her for a loop and leaves her wondering. It also sets the stage for a second encounter later in the evening.
It’s simple but effective. Make a quick intro and pay her on a compliment on her fashion sense: “Hello, my name is Dean. I just wanted to tell you, I love that outfit you’ve got on. You’ve got great style.”
When she says “thank you,” she’s expecting you to initiate a conversation or offer to buy her a drink. Instead, say “You have a good time tonight, just don’t get too crazy, alright?” Then give her a smile and walk away.
This will get a smile out of the girl, and although you’re saying it in an amusing way you’re also making an important point. You’re showing her that you are somebody. You know the people who run this place, and they know you and when you’re with a woman here, she is “protected.”
Now, when you walk away, the girl is flattered and a little bit confused. Now there’s a confident guy, she thinks; he paid her a compliment, captured her interest, then went back to doing his own thing. Obviously this is not a guy who is lacking for female company.
But you intend to encounter her again. Perhaps an hour later you see her going to the ladies’ roomand you move to that area of the club so that you can catch her eye as she comes out. Then you reference the earlier encounter: “Hey, it’s the most stylish girl in the club.”
This time, instead of walking away, you start conversing with her. The ice has already been broken, and you’ve established that you’re not another overeager guying trying to pick her up.
This second time around, she might even feel flattered that you’re taking the time to talk to her. After all, she believes you’re a guy who must have other options and plenty of people to spend time besides her.
If you’re feeling especially confident and sense that she’s into you, drop this funny little gem, delivered with a smile: “I wasn’t trying to pick you up before, but I am now. Let’s go get a drink.” You can’t put a price tag on a line like that.
