Dating modern women today is not as easy as compared to the usual stuff few decades ago.
Modern women are said to be very clever enough to be trapped in men’s game.
In fact, these people know how to make men revolve around their palms.
In this manner, it can never be denied that both men and women are becoming anxiously on-guard with their thoughts, actions and words for the purpose of making themselves attractive to the other.
Being attractive does not solely mean to say having a handsome or beautiful face.
A seducing body built is never a guarantee as well. Attitude has something to say as far as attraction is concerned.
Being attractive is not a big deal with a vast number of girls in this ultra modern society. Fashion successfully boosts women’s beauty and appeal. Unlike men, most of them know a little fashion as compared with the other category in the society- women. These people usually show off their real selves in order to gain appreciation from the surrounding people.
More specifically, men are facing the tougher challenge to look good rather than girls. In fact, they had been searching for ways to cope up with the situation.
We try to invest with lots of books and DVDs to learn the rudiments in dealing with all types of women. We even exhaust our effort to send emails to famous relationship gurus whom we believe to be the best persons who can give us the dos and don’ts in boosting our social rank.
We, men, can never dare to admit that we lack the knowledge in having fun with those sexy and beautiful women. We also fail to admit that we are trying very hard to have an effective “way” with women.
Had you ever ask yourself why beautiful women usually fell for those bad guys who don’t even treat their girls well. Had you ever ask the reason behind many attractive girls’ way of going crazy for guys who don’t even have a regular job as compared to others.
Let me give you a short elaboration regarding this matter. Accordingly, women find it challenging to be with guys who have the guts and the confidence to flip the attraction switches that are attached to their personality. It is said that women act in the dictates of their instinct. And the aforementioned attraction switch is part of their instinct.
At this juncture, allow me to show you some ways to pick up girls. First and foremost, never spend too much for a girl without any assurance of getting her for a date or something more than that.
I know that this is quite selfish. However, trying to make a girl say “yes” to an invitation or even to be brought to your place sometime are often acquainted with gambling as to fish for the price of doing so. It’s never a bad idea to spend a portion of your hard- earned cash. However, overspending without any assurance is what makes it a backfiring idea.
Money does not matter at all. But, your confidence does. Being gutsy and confident in talking to all sorts of women helps you start a conversation very smoothly. Do you want to know how to do this right? Well, listen to these.
Wear a smile and get yourself perfectly ready to play her game and to create a flawless impression. Take note that the moment you approached the table where the girl of your interest is sitting, your first sixty second encounter starts.
During this first minute chitchat, she will try to look for something faulty in you to reject you right away. Thus, she is trying to seize you whether you deserve to be entertained for a talk or you are just wasting her time.
Therefore, be careful. Be tact. Be direct. A cocky and playful attitude will certainly strike the opportunity to bring her home.
Another thing to avoid is the use of classic tone and typical sets questions. Never act so similarly with other men in town. Be someone different. Act with thrill and a sprinkle of misery. Stay this way. Always have an eye for challenge and something new.