Some guys trigger all kinds of “red flags” when they talk to women, and never realize where they went wrong. Have you ever been on a date that you thought went well, and even though you didn’t hook up at the end of the night, you figured there was a serious possibility that she would become your next girlfriend? But when you called her to arrange a second date, she was suddenly extremely “busy” and couldn’t commit to making any plans or didn’t return your phone call?

Before I became involved with M.A.C.K. Tactics, that sort of thing happened to me all too often. I couldn’t understand how a girl that seemed so enthusiastic about me the night before, would shut me out the next day. It’s now clear to me what I had done on those dates that had caused women to disqualify me. I’m able to identify the things I did, and said, that raised little red flags in her mind. Sometimes, one is all it takes for her to dismiss you and move onto the next.

Women disqualify men for instinctive reasons all the time. The other day, I was talking to a female friend of mine, Christine, about a blind date she’d been on the night before. She said the guy had been sweet, funny, generous and quite  handsome. He brought her flowers, and took her out to a restaurant where their dinner and wine cost over $150. But after they said goodnight, she had no desire to ever see him again. She’d disqualified him. I asked her why, and she couldn’t really explain. She said “I don’t know, I guess I just didn’t feel the right chemistry.”

I asked her to explain the date in detail, and it became obvious to me what he’d done to turn her off. He’d acted too eager. He told her, on that very first date, how he was looking for someone to settle down with. At the end of the date he told her “I really like you, and I think there might be potential for a relationship here.” Then he asked her if she was available the following night to go out again.

He thought he was being sincere and honest. But what he was actually doing was surrendering control. He was letting her know, “I’m yours if you want me, now it’s up to you.”

To Christine, he no longer presented any sort of challenge. Also, by trying to set up a date for the following night, her mind registered another red flag that he might be the clingy, possessive type who constantly wanted to be with her, because he had little else going on.

If a guy broadcasts the message that he is totally, utterly single, without another women in his life, how desirable can he be?

Women will wonder,” What’s the catch?” There must be something about him that turns women off possibly a very serious flaw.

Most women would rather cut him loose than stick around and find out what his personal issues are.

One of the themes you’ll find throughout this book is that by limiting your availability to women, you make yourself more attractive. Once you’ve built a relationship with a girl and connected with her on an intimate level, you can spend more time with her and make yourself more available. But in those opening stages, when her female intuition is on high alert and trying to determine her level of attraction towards you, always being available can killer interest. Don’t be an open book; present an element of intrigue and mystery.

In reality, the concept of “chemistry” is nonsense. It’s a figment of the female imagination. As a Mack, you can manufacture a sense of chemistry and make her feel that it exists between the two of you. By simply applying the right Tactics, you can make her feel like you’re the guy she was” destined” to meet.