When it comes to men identifying women that they want as sex partners whether it’s for a one-night stand, or a long-term relationship they are slaves to their biological programming. (Women are, too, but in different ways.) A field of science called “evolutionary biology” explains how many of our thoughts, feelings and behaviors are driven by our biology, otherwise known…

The “higher up” women perceive you to be on this Dominance Scale, the more attractive you will be to them. She might tell herself (and her friends) that she’s only into tall guys, or rich guys, or guys who look like UFC fighters. But if she perceives you to have high social status, you will make her feel attraction. This…

Now I want to explain another fundamental concept that you must learn and start applying because when you do, women will be intrigued to meet you before you ever walk up to them! What I’m about to share with you should eliminate the silly concerns that hold a lot of men back from approaching namely, that you’ve got to be…

Self-help guru Anthony Robbins often talks about how your choice of words can affect your mental state and mean the difference between succeeding and failing. Be especially conscious of the words you use when speaking about your problems, or other negative subjects. In fact, stop using the word “problem” altogether. The better word to use is challenge. Poor phrasing: “Going…

If you’re like most guys and the thought of “cold approaching” a hot girl causes you to feel some anxiety and dread, then you’ve got to reframe the way you view approaching women. In a sense, you’ve got to “reprogram” yourself. It’s not as difficult to do as you might think. If you’ve ever practiced and committed yourself to get…

Before we jump into the specifics of approach, let’s see where you measure up on the Approacher Scale. My friend, the highly respected dating coach Carlos Xuma, says there are five different levels of Approachers. See which level would describe you, and this will help you to determine which areas you need to work on the most. Phase One: This…

Quick story: I was at a bar the other night with a buddy of mine, Jay, who is extremely successful with women, and his style is to be very flirty and sexual. He introduced himself to this very hot girl named Sarah by saying (with a smile), “I hope you don’t have a boyfriend lurking around her somewhere, because I’ve…

Playfulness, fun and positivity. This is huge with women. If you’re the type of person who dwells on negative thoughts and has a sarcastic, self-deprecating sense of humor (which is how I used to be), leave that shit at home. You’ve got to convey positive energy when you talk to women. You are not going to bond with high-quality women…