How to Use Humor to Attract Women

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A lot of people get really caught up in the inner game and they ignore the aspect that you have to be a fascinating communicator.

If you are mas­culine, fun, and confident but you’re not attention-grabbing, guess what?

It’s not going to work, because what you’re saying is not going to keep their attention long enough for them to notice the charac­teristics.

How can you be appealing? Number one, humor: You have to be funny.

I wish that this wasn’t true cause it makes it seem like I have an unnatural advantage, which I do but that’s alright; I’m not 6’ 5” so I’ll trade, if anyone wants to trade. So, you have to be funny.

There’s no one I’ve ever met who was good with girls that wasn’t funny. It’s just a part of how it works.

How can you become funny? Here’s a couple suggestions: First just start trying to make jokes, and I don’t mean like knock-knock jokes, but trying to point out things you think are funny.

I do this all the time, sometimes it hits, sometimes it doesn’t, but if you keep trying to make jokes you’ll get a better feel for humor. The second thing I recommend is improv class, because improv class makes you think on your feet.

It gets you used to trying to make people laugh in outrageous situations. It makes you a little bit better at performing in front of an audience.

It really has a huge amount of benefits and I always recommend this but students rarely ever take it. So don’t be the guy that ignores good advice; take the improv class.

Another thing that can help is watching professional comedians. You can actually steal professional comedians’ bits if they’re not very famed, and use them in set.

Using Humor To Entice Women

I did that for a while, because you get a sense of the pacing. Humor often comes from misdirection and unexpected things. The unexpected is often very humorous. Going too far is often very humorous.

Humor will generally come from a superior or inferior position. The humor you want to use with women should come from a superior position rather than an inferior position, but that doesn’t mean you should never make h of yourself.

I make fun of myself a fair amount because once you get to a cer­tain level where women get that other girls like you, you need to show that you’re sort of humble.

So, in the beginning don’t make fun of yourself but as you get better and better you can use some self deprecating humor.

I used to have a pink Mohawk and one of my favorite thing to say to girls back then was “What? Whatever. I have a pink Mohawk, what the hell do I know? Why are you even listening to me?” I focused on a bad characteristic. I still do that at this point.

Now my new favorite thing to do is make fun of girls for liking me once it’s on. I say, “Oh, you know, you just fucked yourself.

You like me. You made a horrible decision here; this is not going to end well for you. Ugh, I feel bad for you. I’m gonna ruin you for all other men; this is horrible. You should re­ally run away”

 Another interesting tactic is Role playing. Role playing is a great, fun little tactic. Role playing is just a made up scenario. Why? Because it’s emotional stimulation.

It allows a girl to get outside of the bar and club world. Not only that but allows you to play. It also gives you distance and objectivity. It allows you to do a whole bunch of attractive behaviors, from going sexual to dis­qualifying yourself.

A great source for role playing is fairy tales. Sometimes I’ll just go out nights and I know I’ll need to do role playing, and I’ll say, “You know what? I’m going to take you to a witch and she’s going to put a spell over you where you have to go to sleep for a hundred years, and then you’ll let down your hair and I’ll climb up and rescue you with a soft kiss.

Then we’ll have to escape the dragons,” It can be anything, it doesn’t matter what you’re doing.

You can role play about taking her on a romantic date; you can role play about her being your girlfriend for the next five minutes. You can role play about dressing up her and her girlfriend in different costumes.

Doing this takes you out of the normal guy stereotype and puts you into a space of being fun and interesting. It’s something that doesn’t happen a lot to her.

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