Competence is merely a form of secure knowledge. When you have secure knowledge in something, you are comfortable doing it. Competence is the foundation from which you base all your actions off of. In order to achieve the Competence necessary to overcome both barriers to approaching, you have to know what you’re going to say before you approach. Having a…

I’m eager to bet that there has been a time in every man’s life where he has been frightened to come near someone he’s found good-looking. And because this is such a common occurrence, many men have come to the conclusion that approaching women is tough, nerve-racking, and at worst, downright scary. This is such a prevalent feeling among men,…

The idea that everyone sees you in the way you see yourself can be disturbing, especially if you are self critical to the extreme. It’s enough to make you want to lock yourself away from the outside world and live as a loner for the rest of your life, solitary and alone. But there’s a problem with that plan: We…

Don’t be afraid to touch women you’re talking to in order to help strengthen the comfort and connection you’re building with her. Subtly touching her on the forearm or shoulder when you start to tell her something new can do wonders. If she starts to touch you back, she is signaling that she feels comfortable enough to invade your personal…

The old saying is “Actions Speak Louder Then Words,” and nothing could be more true. If you can learn how to read what a woman’s body tells you, you will always know which women are interested and open to your advances, and which women you’re wasting your time with. These body language cues are what I like to call “Approach…

There’s a secret many people might not know about approaching.  It’s a secret so few people know about, because so few people do it. But once you know this secret, your ability to meet any woman, any time, anywhere you may want will literally skyrocket! This was a secret that was hidden from me for many, many years, and it…

It’s always been my belief that “Inner Game” is the most vital aspect of not only meeting and enjoying women, but living an affluent and satisfying life. What is this “Inner Game” that so many people seem apt to talk about and converse at length, but which seems to elude everybody? I look at Inner Game as a kind of…

Your facade is part of your Body Language. Not the appearance you’re born with, however, but the way you shape how you look. It is through how you rearrange your appearance that you transmit your sexuality to others. When you see a gorgeous woman with an average or below-average guy, and you ask her why she finds him attractive, she…